What’s Been Happening I’m sure you can imagine that it’s been a tough time, but I’m not sure I want to chat about my struggles here on Karen’s blog. That’s not really what this site is about. What I would like to do is talk a little about her vision for things, and what I’ve…
Karen’s Day
Karen and I committed ourselves to taking Fridays off, if she went into remission. When she passed, I considered a great many things about how my “new normal” would be. I’m still figuring those things out, but with the support of friends, I decided to make Fridays “Karen’s Day.” Every Friday I do things around the…
Not Really Able to Share Yet
I’m still here, and still hope to share things about Karen so my memories of her are not lost, but each time I’ve tried it’s not been easy. Perhaps I’ll start by sharing photos. I’ll try to dig up a few not seen by most people. –Charlie
Moving Forward
I’m not up to the task of writing new posts right now, but I’d like to write some at some point. I’m not sure what I’m going to share yet, but this isn’t the end for the blog. Right now every story seems very personal. Give me a few weeks to get myself put together…
Wildflowers For Karen
Dear friends, I failed to mention whether flowers are okay, and a couple people asked. Actually, wildflowers are the theme, so flowers are welcome. One of Karen’s last wishes was to see her wildflowers come up again. They have just started coming up, so Karen was able to admire the first ones of the season….
Funeral and Reception
Dear friends, Karen’s service will be this coming Thursday the 24th at Roberts Funeral Home 509 Washington Ave, Washington Courthouse, OH 43160 https://goo.gl/maps/euB12KdiPr52 https://www.robertsfh.net/ Karen loved the stone work on the building that makes it look a little like a castle, and it’s owned by a local paramedic. She didn’t know the owner was a…
Karen’s Passing
Dear friends, Karen passed away tonight after an almost two year struggle with cancer. She fought like hell the whole time, and even while fighting this terrible sickness, she inspired people to make the world a better place. She did this by sharing just the right story with somebody who needed a pick-me-up, or inspiring…
A Few Thoughts
Karen is still going through the process of passing away, but I won’t be speaking about that intensely personal process in the blog. Hospice is watching the both of us to make sure we have the support needed. I’ve been in regular contact with our hospice social worker and pastor, and Karen’s nurse is here…
Tuesday Update 5/15
It’s been a few days since my last blog post. Karen’s health started declining pretty rapidly Sunday. When hospice and I were certain that this was the end I wanted to reach out to family, both near and far, before posting on the blog about it. Thanks for your understanding. I’m sorry for the people…
An Adventurous Day
The hospice team helped us change Karen’s meds around a little yesterday, and it improved things a little for her. She started a new med for her queasiness, and it’s not making her quite as tired. She’s still taking the morphine regularly for her breathing, but this has reduced the amount of oxy she’s taking….